1. Emotional Maturity
Handles stress, conflict, and emotions in a healthy way

Can talk through disagreements calmly and respectfully

2. Trustworthiness
Keeps promises and is consistent

Builds a sense of safety and reliability in the relationship

3. Mutual Respect
Values your opinions, boundaries, and individuality

Treats you as an equal partner, not a project to change

4. Shared Core Values
Beliefs about family, faith, finances, parenting, etc. align

While differences are okay, shared values build long-term compatibility

5. Good Communication Skills
Open and honest about feelings, needs, and intentions

Listens actively and avoids passive-aggressive behavior

6. Empathy and Kindness
Shows compassion and cares about others’ well-being

Emotionally supportive in tough times

7. Sense of Responsibility
Takes ownership of actions and life goals

Committed to the idea of growing together, not just enjoying the good times

8. Compatibility in Lifestyle
Habits, pace of life, and life goals are reasonably aligned

Differences can exist, but shouldn't constantly cause friction

9. Physical and Emotional Attraction
A connection that feels genuine and intimate

Both partners feel seen, valued, and loved

10. Sense of Humor and Positivity
Laughing together strengthens bonding

Helps navigate tough times with optimism and resilience